January 21st, 2012 | 
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why do gay guys play games on online Dating sites?
Like manhunt.net, gaydar.com. Im in my mid 20s and masculine.
Some of the guys on there are so rude, waste your time and play these games like demanding pictures, more clearer pictures, at least 10 pics of yourself then when you put in the effort of giving them what they want, they just make a lame excuse saying ‘its getting late’, I have to head to bed now etc.
Im sick of it. Why do some gay guys think they are so better than everyone else?, Such a*ss oles and if really makes me frustrated being played around with on these dating gay sites whether you want to hook up or just meet for a coffee or just chat.
Have you ever experienced this.
Im closeted for family reasons and sometimes I wish I was NEVER gay. So much rejection, pain on top of not being able to come out just seems too much too bear. I feel like Ive been played like a yo yo on many occasions.
Maybe I should turn st8 since girls seem to check me out more than guys.
One of the best things about the internet is that it is virtually completely anonymous. We can be pretty much whoever we want to be when we are online with practically no accountability.
Unfortunately this lack of consequences also tends to bring out the worst in us. If someone wants to act nasty, or even down right offensive, they can do so, and just walk away.
If you stop and think about the amount of people that are online, and the varied personalities that go along with them, it isn’t too hard to imagine that you will run into some real questionable people.
Personally I think you need to become more comfortable with yourself, and who you are. I think many gay guys go through the I wish I was straight phase.
I sort of did when I was around 16, but quickly decided that I was me, and if I was going to be happy, then I needed to accept myself.
When you get to the point where you completely accept who you are, you can then decide that your happiness is more important than what anyone else thinks about you.
I was lucky, even though I though my family would never accept me, I was completely wrong. They have been incredible, once I gave them the chance.
However I was prepared to walk away from my family if necessary, I just couldn’t live my life that way.
Good luck.
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